<h2 id="699806a0-2eba-42a4-9c8e-a252f98c8fa6" data-toc-id="699806a0-2eba-42a4-9c8e-a252f98c8fa6" style="text-align: left; font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.2;"><strong>Why Willpower Fails Against Sin, and What Works Instead</strong></h2><p>I recently overheard two people joking about sin. One said, “Well, you can’t repent and repeat. You must choose one or the other. At least that’s what my preacher says.” Both laughed.</p><p>It was a light moment, but it pointed at something none of us can laugh off for long. Most of us have repented of the same thing more than once.</p><p></p><h2 id="723f4525-ea14-40e0-b95e-c7d62b47958d" data-toc-id="723f4525-ea14-40e0-b95e-c7d62b47958d" style="text-align: left; font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.2;"><strong>Sin Is a Condition, Not Just an Act</strong></h2><p>We tend to think of sin as individual acts we need to stop. Scripture goes deeper. Richard Foster notes in <em>Celebration of Discipline</em> that the Hebrew language has eight different words for sin, and the Bible uses all eight. Sin is a condition that enslaves all of us, and the Bible traces how it works: “Temptation comes from our own desires, which entice us and drag us away. These desires give birth to sinful actions. And when sin is allowed to grow, it gives birth to death.” (James 1:14-15 NLT)</p><p>Paul adds that the results of our sinful nature are “very clear,” and he lists everything from sexual immorality to hostility, jealousy, angry outbursts, and drunkenness. (Galatians 5:19-21 NLT)</p><p></p><h2 id="675a83c7-9009-458b-a920-7ded162c4477" data-toc-id="675a83c7-9009-458b-a920-7ded162c4477" style="text-align: left; font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.2;"><strong>Why Willpower Isn’t Enough</strong></h2><p>When we see a pattern we dislike, we usually try to push it out by sheer determination. Paul tells us how that goes. He does what he hates and can’t seem to do what he wants. (Romans 7:15-25)</p><p>Psychology points the same direction. Psychologist Wendy Wood and her team at Texas A&amp;M University had college students write down what they were doing each time a wristwatch buzzed. Across two studies, between 35 and 43 percent of the recorded behaviors were habits, meaning things done almost daily in the same place, often with little thought. Willpower works on choices, and much of what we do isn’t a choice in the moment.</p><p></p><h2 id="824c29c2-d508-47fc-96e7-ea10ad00be71" data-toc-id="824c29c2-d508-47fc-96e7-ea10ad00be71" style="text-align: left; font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.2;"><strong>Grace Changes Us, and Discipline Opens the Door</strong></h2><p>Transformation comes through “God’s wonderful grace and his gift of righteousness.” (Romans 5:17 NLT) But grace doesn’t come through works, and it doesn’t come through idleness either.</p><p>Foster’s way of putting it is that God changes us from within, and the spiritual disciplines are the means by which we receive that grace. They place us before God so he can do what we can’t do ourselves.</p><p>Disciplines are regularly practiced actions such as reading and studying the Bible, prayer, biblical meditation, and worship. As we practice them, the Holy Spirit grows his fruit in us: “love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control.” (Galatians 5:22-23 NLT)</p><p></p><h2 id="9c6d3b01-20dd-4a8c-a1f3-8f4f932723d5" data-toc-id="9c6d3b01-20dd-4a8c-a1f3-8f4f932723d5" style="text-align: left; font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.2;"><strong>One Small Step This Week</strong></h2><p>Pick one discipline and attach it to something you already do. Read one Psalm with your morning coffee. Pray for two minutes before you start the car.</p><p>Small and steady beats ambitious and abandoned.</p><p>Which discipline do you most want to practice, and what is one thing you already do each day that it could ride along with? I’d love to hear your thoughts. You can share them with me by <a target="_blank" href="https://www.hpaulstanleycoaching.com/contact-dr-stanley/"><strong>clicking here</strong></a><strong>.</strong></p><hr><h2 id="d23be3c6-c569-4044-a555-4f2a7b7e54ba" data-toc-id="d23be3c6-c569-4044-a555-4f2a7b7e54ba" style="text-align: left; font-size: 24px; line-height: 1.2;"><strong>Did you find this helpful? Would you like more — but not too much more?</strong></h2><p>Once every two weeks, I send a short, practical article focused on living a less stressful, more abundant life — helping you maintain life balance and grow mentally, physically, spiritually, and socially over time.</p><p>You can subscribe by <a target="_blank" href="https://www.hpaulstanleycoaching.com/stress-relief---life-balance-news-tips-opt-in/"><strong>clicking here</strong></a>.</p>

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Why Willpower Fails Against Sin, and What Works Instead

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